No preference. But I guess it seems like a more cohesive romantic narrative if I moved across the country to propose to you?

Wait until we actually have the marriage certificate in hand before any "another one" talk. "Marital communications are only presumed confidential if they're made during the marriage." Per the Goodwin, Watkins, and Vaughan Law Blog.

You can call me Big Baller lmfao. I kicked ass at basketball in fourth grade. Or is it only personally gratifying if the Big Baller in question isn't expecting to be called that?